Common Question about Boyfriend and Girlfriend

 

Common Question about Boyfriend and Girlfriend

Having Girlfriend, is undoubtedly haram is Islam. But however your question is, then how can I know the girl that I would like to marry vice versa?

To answer this. There is halal ways. If you like a girl and want to marry her, tell your parent about it and your parents would talk to her parents. Don't have relation with that girl privately. Talk to her in front of your parents or her parents. By that way you can get to know her in Islamic way. if you're going to message her on whatsApp, create a group and let the girl add her brother or the like in that group.

The Prophet ﷺ Said :

"A man is not alone with a woman but the third of them is Ash-Shaitan."

al-Tirmidhi, 2165.

It is widely agreed upon in Muslim tradition, that if an observant Muslim couple is interested in getting acquainted for the sake of marriage they may do so, but in the company of others or in public places.

For Muslims, the idea behind this is that having a chaperone prevents the couple from acting in ways that they would not be likely to in the presence of others..

Hence, there is no harm in trying to know her, but Islamic conditions must be met - there must be someone around who is a mahram and can understand and explain the reality. So if it is to understand each other because you want to get married, then by all means within the limits of the shariah.

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